kaialacy

Parents who follow me often arrive here after weeks (or months) of doing everything “right”. They have a collection of flange sizes and pumps and have gone through (or are currently experiencing) the torture of triple-feeding. They've power pumped their way through entire netflix series, and supplemented with a trove of "we promise this will increase your supply" supplements. They've gone to the chiropractor and the pediatric dentist and everyone says it's all fine- or worse: "just pump...

exploring that disconnect when things turn out differently

I once had a friend who stopped over to visit while I was pumping with my first baby. She sat beside me and midway through our...